The Monotony of Popular Porn
So you're scrolling for ages, trying to find something that turns you on. But no matter what you search for, it seems like you're seeing the same thing over and over: a mainstream blonde with a typical body, and a guy who's clearly done too many steroids - he's covered in tattoos for some reason? The women are usually in a submissive role (nothing wrong with that, but it's just so repetitive).
These guys seem to go crazy, with intense screaming and fast intercourse - like they can't wait to get it over with. The settings are always the same too: standard rented houses with white walls and marble kitchen islands. The women usually just lie there, while the men are usually the ones taking charge.
Guys who like these kinds of videos tend to get excited by certain things: the doggy style position, a woman pushed against a wall, and preferably not being able to see her face. They're into visuals of a penis going into a ... well, you know. They watch this type of stuff non-stop, and it's not hard to figure out what they want: angles of a vagina being penetrated by a penis, followed by a bit of basic oral sex on the woman, then a long, dramatic oral sex show for the man, followed by a hand job.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with any of that, but it does take up a lot of space online, in porn platforms. All that's shown to people is this repetitive stuff, and that's why it's no surprise that people don't get fetishes and kinks, and even disapprove of those who embrace them.
For me, I have a hard time connecting with guys who don't know or understand their own sexuality. I connect better with guys who are fetishists. These guys see beyond the obvious and get turned on by behaviors, words, and symbols. They're like the thinkers of the sexual world.
Fetishism is about exploring the unknown - it's in the stains on women's underwear, the smell of vaginal fluids, the excitement of discovering someone's sexual preferences. It can be little things like sucking on a well-groomed foot, or more involved things like knowing that an orgasm is more powerful when it's desired and the firm request for permission to cum.
Guys into fetishes know that sexual attraction starts in the mind. And while most men think sex starts with intercourse, it's actually a ritual. It's all about imagining that dreamy moment with someone worth it. Oh, and the crazy part? The men who rush intercourse usually find out that they missed out on something deep and satisfying.
That's why I like fetishists and kinky guys. They're not just visual - they see beyond the obvious. They like fetishes because they see more than others. Fetishism lets them explore different sides of sexuality that the average guy doesn't even know about. It's a firework of sensations and a load of wax-sealed, forbidden pleasures that you can't get with a casual fling.
But what about complicated fetishes, like findom? These are when the submissive wants to be humiliated, while the dominant gets a thrill from getting worshipped. Both parties get to feel a kind of control they've never had before: the submissive is hungry for exploitation and shaken, and the dominant is all about being served while experiencing extraordinary pleasure. It's the most exciting dance in town!
So, how do you tell your B&B guests that you like being surrounded by pay pigs, who want to worship you? How do you explain to your employees that you'd love it if they'd call the shots for once? Pornography is a great way to explore fetishes - it's safe and controlled. But what about the real world? How do you explain your kinky side to the people around you? Findom: the dance between risk and humiliation.
My favorite sexual fetish is Findom, which is part of the broader category known as BDSM. For me, Findom is thrilling because both parties experience arousal from something that feels a little risky and self-degrading. This is a complex psychological issue that I've explored more deeply. The excitement and allure of this fetish lies in the sense of risk, peril, and humiliation.
I believe that men are subconsciously drawn to women who can potentially ruin their lives. Take, for example, the age-old story of Caesar and Cleopatra. Why would a man like Caesar be interested in a woman like Cleopatra?
According to Robert Greene, men are secretly attracted to these "dangerous women" because they offer an element of risk and the possibility that the woman might cause them harm. This desire for danger and the uncertainty of the outcome is part of what makes these women so alluring. Paypigs are a manifestation of the pirates in legends who were captivated by sirens. The siren's songs were enchanting and ultimately led them to their deaths, just like a dangerous woman could lead a man to ruin.
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