Varied Opinions on Public Bathrooms: Chapter 2
If you're not keen on mentioning women in all-male saunas, I recommend checking out a different tale. This story's first part talks about parts of the original "Mixed Bathhouse Ch. 1" narrative that were overlooked, and the second part discusses various thoughts from over a year ago before that enchanting first time.
I stumbled upon a new bathhouse within driving distance that welcomed anyone anytime it was open to the public. Since then, other possibilities paled in comparison. However, it took me over a year to finally arrange a visit. I set aside a half day for this experience. On the day before going, I registered for an event at a sex website where I'd been a member for more than a decade. I was the third person to sign up, the others being a single woman and a single man.
For me, the anonymity of the baths is what makes them so irresistible. This situation was different, though, as I'd read comments from other members about this place which proved helpful. And although bathhouses don't necessarily cater to the explicit exchanges between men, letting members know my intentions was a small but meaningful step in sharing my interests and choices, something I've already shared with my readers.
Glancing at the website on Monday morning, two other men had also signed up: one was around my age and bisexual, the other was younger and straight. Maybe the site was mistaken, as it seems this mixed day was actually a swinger party. Perhaps a straight man was curious about the mixed day and saw it as the ideal opportunity for a cover story to explore other men. Or it could be that he wanted to test his boundaries in a bathhouse setting, likened to glory holes in adult arcades. After all, if a man gets aroused at a glory hole and enjoys a blowjob, it doesn't matter whether the mouth belongs to a man or a woman—his orgasm remains private, allowing him to maintain an illusion.
Bathhouses and sex clubs may seem similar, yet they're quite distinct—even if my knowledge of sex clubs is limited to what I've gleaned from others. But a good bathhouse is a throwback to traditional saunas, reasonably priced with the bonus of a space for male-only encounters. Direct, bare-all sex with no pretensions about the experiences, where a good head job is within reach after a few minutes inside. These places are where you're unconcerned if others notice while you wait to enjoy another person sucking your cock. You're also receptive to having others join in and experiencing a fantastic climax.
Repeated bathhouse patrons have likely had sexual encounters in virtually every part of the sauna that isn't obviously public. Also, sex clubs with darkrooms include more than some private spaces and are known for being more social: they're usually reserved for buffet dinners and might have drinks and bigger spaces like dance floors. Nudity isn't customary in these places, unlike saunas.
While sex might not be a common occurrence at typical sex clubs, they do have darkrooms and provide opportunities for group sex. However, a mixed swinger's club tends to lack the uninhibited exploration of the bathhouses, offering a more social surrounding for attendees, which is especially appealing when seeking more than just a physical connection. Yet, bathhouses aren't somewhere where you must make friends before engaging in passionate encounters. In fact, the reverse is often the case, as a cold mouth wraps around your penis, another man sucking one of your nipples as you deeply kiss a third man who initially gave you head, drenched in his saliva, whose erect cock you hold in your hands.
The same observation about sex being infrequent at swinger clubs also appears to be true for whatever bathhouse was advertised as a mixed one for men and women. According to reviews, the bathhouse atmosphere didn't seem to be occurring due to the absence of regular patrons who frequent the more traditional kind. When I visited the city where it was located, I skipped this alternative, opting for two standard bathhouses because I lacked the time to try this place, which was explicitly promoted as such by the owner.
In the beginning, this combined gay and heterosexual establishment started with average to poor success once it had been open for a short while. The opposition against women in bathhouses is surprisingly intense. Trying one day a week without any restrictions at all can be a more exciting method, as even regular bathhouse patrons are likely to accept such an open-minded idea without thinking twice. While having a bathhouse experience with or without women was a consideration for me, my goal in such an environment is always to have sex. I enjoy poppered oral sex and planned on sharing a new magic brown bottle. The first partners I've had poppers with were women, so I'm well aware that even women enjoy poppered sex.
Straight men tend to be reluctant when it comes to the idea of having sex with both a man and a woman at the same time. They present subjective reasons that don't make much sense to me, but these men are not shy about expressing their refusal to consider MMF sex. Conversely, a man who has heard about a bathhouse with a specific day for women might see that as an acceptable way to satisfy his curiosity about the types of sex that can occur among men.
Although bisexual men exist, they aren't a particularly big market segment. While a male-only environment doesn't prevent bi men from entering, bathhouses and sex clubs are both male-only most of the time, which makes true MMF quite uncommon. It doesn't mean that MMF encounters can't happen in a sex club, but it's likely that this is a relatively rare occurrence due to the freedom men enjoy at bathhouses.
As a bisexual man, I have no problem with women. There are several reasons why some men may not want women in the baths. One is related to being gay and seeing no place for women in a gay playground for sex. This can lead to idiotic behaviors, like one man saying that no woman should ever use his sling, as if she would somehow tarnish it. But this reaction is not the only reason why bathhouses typically keep women out.
Another reason that comes to mind, in various ways, is that women simply don't comprehend the essence of a bathhouse. Especially if a wife or girlfriend sees you having sex with three different men, the look on her face could make it apparent how much you enjoy indulging in such anonymous sex. Many men fantasize about receiving oral sex from multiple partners, but the baths are where it happens regularly. These same men may not have imagined wanting to receive oral sex from multiple partners, yet after doing it, they can't resist repeating it when given the chance. The baths are the place where such chances always emerge.
Taking care of men orally is something women understand and can appreciate, with many women fantasizing about sucking multiple cocks. Women are aware of what a bathhouse represents, so engaging in oral sex with multiple strangers is somewhat conceivable in a place where this sort of activity happens frequently. Discrete within, yet exposed to the public outside, the bathhouse is like a secret shared among those who know. The club's membership might gain a few new female members now and then, with or without a partner, as they experience the freedom men have in a sauna.
For a smaller group of visitors, the reason for keeping women away is less pleasant. This includes those who consider themselves predominantly straight outside of the baths, and worry about their wives or girlfriends learning about their regular encounters with other men. The mere thought of being unfaithful can be viewed as infidelity, so concealing their bathhouse visits is crucial if they want to maintain their relationship. For many men who return for more after their first taste of shared male pleasure, this perspective is quite reasonable.
A regular bathhouse visitor whose partner is also male can be confident that his partner understands the appeal of variety and would like to take advantage of it. In contrast, a woman is far less likely to find the allure of unlimited sex among complete strangers seductive, even if she is intrigued by what goes on in a men-only sauna. Women seem to struggle with comprehending the arousing reality of bathhouse sex.
A few ladies might be drawn to lesbian sex, which is quite natural. There's a possibility that visiting a bathhouse once a week would draw in some first-timers, particularly on Mondays, a relatively quiet day for these establishments. Additionally, the idea of male swingers bringing along their curious spouses sounds appealing as well, supported by numerous testimonials on a sex platform I've been a part of for over a decade, where I've been conversing about bathhouses extensively. Here, a woman I've corresponded with often, who also met her last female lover and other partners, both male and female, shared her experiences in glowing terms.
Numerous reviews described the sauna area, and given the activity levels in their profiles, participation seemed likely. The thought of viewing a male-female couple engaging in sexual acts right in front of you is compelling, especially in an open space like a bathhouse. Another attractive scenario is a woman and a man sharing a single cock while simultaneously pleasuring each other.
Admittedly, these are just fantasies. In reality, my visit was quite enjoyable, marked by a shared experience with a lady who seemed to be captivated by the bathhouse ambiance. Surprisingly, she claimed it was her first time, and I told her it was mine, too.
Despite this, the overall impression of the bathhouse rather underwhelmed me. The cabins felt claustrophobic, and the sling was subpar. The concept of a line of glory hole booths was intriguing, yet the glass windows at the back detracted from the experience. Plus, the sauna was divided into numerous sections, identical to other bathhouses. However, I like the large, open saunas of my usual place, which offer various group sex scenarios. The porn room was tight, with two slim benches, although it did play bi-porn, but muted.
Besides the music and smoking cannabis in the steam room, the bathhouse's most distinctive aspect was the freedom to consume cannabis. This was a unique experience for me, as it was my first time engaging in stoned sex in an exclusive, male environment. As a result, the opportunity to have a woman share my climax with other men proved exceptionally enjoyable and novel.
I remember my initial visit to a similar establishment in Rotterdam, which was positioned opposite a coffee shop. After getting high, I went back to the bathhouse and laid in the darkroom. Gradually, it occurred to me that two men were sharing my cock, a sensation I hadn't experienced before. The fresh poppers bottle only added to the overwhelming bliss. Now, my plan is to return on a Tuesday, which also happens to be a mixed day, and see if I have similar luck. While I'm not expecting it to be as successful, I won't give up on the hope of recreating the excitement.
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